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You Can’t Birth a God While Laying with Someone Who Won’t Wake Up

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Let’s talk about it, because I see too many powerful women trying to breathe life into men and women who refuse to rise.

You’ve awakened. You’ve peeled back the layers of conditioning. You’ve started to remember who you are a priestess, a mother, a creator, a force of nature. Your womb is a portal. Your energy is magnetic.

You don’t just exist in this world, you move this world.

But here’s the problem: The man you love is still asleep.

🔻 He clings to what he’s been taught instead of seeking his own truth.
🔻 He argues with what you know to be true because it’s not in a book written by men.
🔻 He doubts your power, dismisses your visions, and treats your spiritual gifts like they’re just “your thing” instead of recognizing them as divine.

And yet, you keep trying to wake him up.

You soften your words, so he won’t feel threatened.

You dim your light, so he doesn’t feel insecure.

You try to “prove” what cannot be explained....what must be felt.

But sis… you cannot birth a god in a man who refuses to leave his cage.

You Are Not His Mother


A womb knows how to create, but it is not responsible for raising a grown man’s consciousness. You are his woman, not his teacher (Although you can take this role).

His awakening is his work.

His healing is his journey. If he is not asking questions, if he is not seeking more, then he is choosing to stay blind.

And do you know what happens when a woman forces herself to stay small for the comfort of an unevolved man?

Her womb revolts.
Her spirit suffocates.
Her ancestors whisper, leave him behind.

Either He Rises, or You Leave Him in the Dust


Love is not enough. Consciousness must be aligned. If he cannot honor the depth of who you are, if he fights your knowing, if he refuses to evolve, then the choice is clear. You will outgrow him.

And if you’re reading this with a tightness in your chest because you know I’m speaking to you, then it’s time to ask yourself:

💭 Am I holding space for his awakening, or am I sacrificing myself for it?
💭 Am I forcing love where alignment does not exist?
💭 Am I afraid to leave because I doubt I will find a man who sees me?

You are not alone in this. And if you need clarity, if you need to understand your path, I’m here to guide you.

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You do not have time to wait for a man who does not want to wake up.

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